工作狂

下列现象中，属于职业倦怠的是（　）。

• A、甲是新手司机，第一天上路十分紧张，当天夜里做梦还在开车

• B、乙是学生，新学期开学前返校，百般不情愿

• C、丙担任员工关系专员五年，主要工作是做员工离职面谈，感觉精神疲惫，再不休息就要病了

• D、丁是典型的工作狂，上班时精神亢奋，下班后虽感疲惫但心情愉快

下列现象中，属于职业倦怠的是()。

A.甲是新手司机，第一天上路十分紧张，当天夜里做梦还在开车B.乙是学生，新学期开学前返校，百般不情愿C.丙担任员工关系专员五年，主要工作是做员工离职面谈，感觉精神疲惫，再不休息就要病了D.丁是典型的工作狂，上班时精神亢奋，下班后虽感疲惫但心情愉快

努力工作和醉心于工作之间有很大的区别。努力工作是指工作有条有理、精力集中，完成许多工作，知道何时歇手，知道除了工作还有生活。而工作狂们常常是缺乏条理，总是寻找理由想做得更多些，没有工作可做时就感到不知所措，想通过工作来逃避问题。他们不知道怎样或何时放松一下，经常把办公室里的活儿带回家里去做，不善于和同事及家人交流沟通。

回避型人格障碍的特点是 A.猜疑、妄想，对他人缺乏信任、存在敌意，因而人际关系紧张
B.漠视他人，不负责任，有暴力攻击行为，并且缺乏自责，不能从惩罚中吸取教训
C.情绪不稳定，行为冲动，对挫折缺乏耐受力，与人关系不稳定
D.情感夸大，易受暗示，喜欢成为大家关注的中心，不适当的诱惑性行为和装扮
E.追求完美，过分小心，关注细节，有工作狂的倾向
F.对被人负面评价、拒绝或忽视表现出显著的焦虑

反社会型人格障碍的特点是 A.猜疑、妄想，对他人缺乏信任、存在敌意，因而人际关系紧张
B.漠视他人，不负责任，有暴力攻击行为，并且缺乏自责，不能从惩罚中吸取教训
C.情绪不稳定，行为冲动，对挫折缺乏耐受力，与人关系不稳定
D.情感夸大，易受暗示，喜欢成为大家关注的中心，不适当的诱惑性行为和装扮
E.追求完美，过分小心，关注细节，有工作狂的倾向
F.对被人负面评价、拒绝或忽视表现出显著的焦虑

题目非黑即白是一种逻辑错误，指在两个极端之间，不恰当地二者择一。非黑即白式的思考，无视中间体存在，把选择范围仅限于黑白两个极端，不恰当地要求在二者中择一（  ）。
A:大家都说张三很爱你，所以他一定是很爱你的
B:张三不是一个成年人，所以他一定是未成年人
C:张三不是一个工作狂，所以他一定是一个懒汉
D:张三是个黑皮肤的人，所以他一定不是黄种人

从小到大，我的数学和英语就不好，在与数字和字母相关的工作领域中，我就不是个“聪明人”，所以我不会去选择当一名会计、精算师，或者翻译；但我的文字、审美、创意还不错，也许是个“聪明人”，所以我会去尝试做设计、文字和创意类的工作。我还记得我刚毕业在广告公司工作的时候，同样的任务和工作量，我几乎都能在晚上7点前完成，没怎么熬过夜；当时每每看到第二天，很多和我一同进入公司的小伙伴们都一脸疲惫、黑着眼圈的时候我就不理解，为什么你们要熬夜呢？果不其然，这些每天都熬夜写策划的“工作狂”们，几个月后都转行了，他们去了那些更适合他们的行业和公司。在那里，他们成为了“聪明人”，他们真的就很少熬夜了。所以，“聪明”只不过是“喜欢”和“合适”的同义词，如果你每天都觉得你不够“聪明”，你需要换个坑了。上述文字意在说明（） A.所谓“聪明”其实是在自己擅长的领域发挥才能B.不“聪明”的人往往熬夜加班做着他们不适合的工作C.要根据自己聪明不聪明去选择适合自己的工作D.每天熬夜加班的“工作狂”，不久之后都会因太累而转行

下列各句中，没有语病的一项是（3分）（）A:作者观察细致，一泓清潭、汩汩流水、朗朗歌声，都能激发他的灵感，都能从中找到抒情叙事的切入点。
B:现任故宫博物院院长单霁翔是文物界出了名的“工作狂”，不仅他的节奏练就了自己坐在车上用电脑写稿子的本领，也影响并锻炼了身边的工作人员。
C:面对教育部推行的汉语四六级考试，国人纷纷质疑：这种考试真能改善“外语热、国语冷”以及网络语言不规范等语言现象吗
D:测量结果显示，水城威尼斯的历史老城区正在缓慢地持续下降，导致这一结果的原因主要是气候变暖造成的海平面上升。

下列各句中，没有语病的一项是（3分）（）A:甘肃庆阳发生的校车事故及之后各地出现的一系列类似事件，使很多地方政府开始重视校车安全问题，为了保障校车安全，纷纷腾出财力更换新校车。
B:现任故宫博物院院长单霁翔是文物界出了名的“工作狂”，不仅他的节奏练就了自己坐在车上用电脑写稿子的本领，也影响并锻炼了身边的工作人员。
C:面对教育部推行的汉语四六级考试，国人纷纷质疑：这种考试真能改善“外语热、国语冷”以及网络语言不规范等语言现象吗
D:测量结果显示，水城威尼斯的历史老城区正在缓慢地持续下降，导致这一结果的原因主要是气候变暖造成的海平面上升。

下列各句中，没有语病的一句是（3分）A:中国是一个发展中国家，虽然面临诸多数不清的困难，但一直对外提供力所能及的援助。近几年来，已先后向马其顿提供了学校改建、赠送校车等多个援助项目。
B:现任故宫博物院院长单霁翔是文物界出了名的“工作狂”，不仅他的节奏练就了自己坐在车上用电脑写稿子的本领，也影响并锻炼了身边的工作人员。
C:据统计，近年来全国各地发生的多起较大道路交通事故的原因多是驾驶人酒驾、超速、超载等不文明驾驶行为所导致的。
D:无论是提高艺术表现力，还是判断艺术的优劣高下和学术上的是非，都不能靠行政命令，而要靠艰苦的艺术实践，靠平等的争鸣。

下列各句中，没有语病的一句是（）（3分）A:铁道部自2012年1月1日起开始实行的“火车票实名制”明确规定，旅客须持车票与和票面所载身份信息相符的本人有效身份证件原件进站上车。
B:现任故宫博物院院长单霁翔是文物界出了名的“工作狂”，不仅他的快节奏练就了自己坐在车上用电脑写稿子的本领，也影响并锻炼了他身边的工作人员。
C:发改委价格监督检查与反垄断局称，电信一年的互联网收入大约为500亿元，相对应的，罚额将高达数亿乃至数十亿元左右。
D:“7·23”甬温线特大交通事故发生的原因是由列控中心设备存在严重设计缺陷、上道使用审查把关不严、应急处置不力等因素造成的。

阅读下列材科，按要求完成作文。
材料一:龟兔赛跑的故事在中国可谓妇孺皆知，人们经常嘲笑那只‘打盹”的兔子，而赞赏那只“打拼”的乌龟。因为那只乌龟为了荣誉和尊严而不停地拼命奔跑．对很多人来说，只有不停的“打拼”，才能换来闪亮的人生。
材料二:李开复是个“工作狂”，他曾天真的和别人比赛“谁的睡眠更少”“谁能在凌晨里及时回复件”．．．努力把"拼命”作为自己的一个标签．今年9月．他被查出患上琳巴癌,患病之后他说:“冷静下来反思:这种以健康为代价的坚持，不一定是对的。”其实，适当的“打吨”可以让我们理性审视当下的迭择，可以让我们积蓄前行的力量。只是，这个“盹”，不要打得太久．
上述材料引发你怎样的思考？请根据自己的生活验与感受，以“打盹与打拼”为话题写一篇文章，文体不限，不少于800字．

周末焦虑症是单身女白领特有的一种职业病，表现为一到周末就心情焦虑、无所适从、烦躁不安。因为平时工作紧张，周末较为清闲，人如果一下子从高度紧张的状态中停下来，生理和心理的惯性作用会让人感到不适应，只能用玩乐来发泄一下，可是往往吃喝玩乐后更烦躁，严重者还会出现抑郁、焦躁等心理问题，甚至心悸、失眠等身体健康问题。根据上述定义，下列属于周末焦虑症的是（）

A.小李不仅是职场女性还是个家庭主妇，除了上班还要照顾一家人的吃喝，周末更需要打扫卫生、看孩子，一到周末就十分烦躁，还不如上班轻松

B.小王是个IT男，平时上班就是做软件开发，到了周末就宅在家里打游戏，长此以往，整个人非常颓废，完全没有交际圈

C.小赵是个工作狂，至今未婚，但是生活并不乏味，除了认真上班，她利用业余时间参加一些技艺培训，不仅学会了不少技艺，还认识了很多朋友

D.小张是个单身北漂，平时工作紧张，盼望着周末的到来，但到了周末她却变得抑郁烦躁，除了吃喝玩乐便不知道做什么

Question 21 to 25 are based on the following passage. Like fingerprints, no two faces are exactly the same. Did you ever wonder how it is possible for us to recognize people？ Even a skilled writer probably could not describe all the characters that make one face different from another. Yet a very young child---even an animal, such as a bird ------ can learn to recognize faces. We all take this ability for granted.

We also tell two people apart by how they behave. A person’s personality means the ways in which he acts, speaks, thinks and feels that make him different from others.

Like the human face, human personality is very complex. But describing a person’s personality in words is somewhat easier than describing his face, if you were asked to describe what a “nice face” looks like, you would have a difficult time doing so. But if you were asked to describe a “nice person”, you might begin to think about someone who is kind, thoughtful, warm, and so on.

There are many words that can be used to describe how a person thinks, feels, and acts. Gordon Allport, a U.S. scientist who studies the human mind, found nearly 18,000 English words characterizing differences in human behavior. And many of us use these words to describe different types of people ---- bookworms (书呆子), fools, workaholics(工作狂).

According to the passage, a very young child can _______.

A. learn to recognize faces

B. describe how a person thinks

C. learn to recognize fingerprints

D. describe what a “nice person” is like

According to the passage, we can tell two people apart by ________.

A. their behavior

B. their names

C. their hands

D. their clothes

Describing a “nice face” _____.

A. is quite easy

B. is a difficult task

C. is not as difficult as describing a “nice person”

D. may remind you of someone who was kind, thoughtful and friendly

It can be concluded from the passage that _____.

A. a “nice person” is very complex

B. it’s hard to describe a “nice person”

C. a “nice person” is considerate and kind

D. when we tell one person from another, we often refer to their face

Which of the following statements is NOT true about Gordon Allport？

A. He describes himself as a bookworm.

B. He does research on the human mind.

C. He found about 18,000 English words to describe human behavior.

D. The words he found are being used by many people to describe a person.

People say that money cannot buy happiness. This was true for Howard Hughes. (76) He was one of the richest and most powerful men of his time. He had everything: good looks, success, power, and a lot of money. But he didn’t have love or friendship because he couldn’t buy them. All his life he used his money to control everything and everyone around him. In the end, he lost control of everything, even himself.Howard Hughes was born in 1905 in Houston, Texas. His father started the Hughes Tool Company. He was a workaholic (工作狂) and made a lot of money. He bought everything he wanted. He even gave money to schools so Howard could get into them. From his father, Howard learned to be a successful but merciless businessman. Hughes’s mother, Allene also had a big influence on his life. Howard was her only child. She protected him and gave him everything. Unfortunately, Allene had mental problems. (77) She was afraid of germs and diseases. She was obsessed with Howard’s health, and he became obsessed with it too.Allene died when Howard was 16 years old. Two years later his father died. Hughes inherited the Hughes Tool Company. Then he married Ella Rice. He and Ella moved to Los Angeles, California. It was there that Howard Hughes began to become a legend (传奇人物). Hughes began to invest his money in movies. He became an important producer soon after he moved to California. He worked hard, but he also played hard. He became obsessed with power and control. When he couldn’t get something legally, he gave money to politicians and businessmen so they would help him. He owned a lot of businesses, including airplane companies, a movie studio (制片厂)，Las Vegas hotels, gold and silver mines, and radio and television stations. Once he bought a television studio so he could watch movies all night. He also bought a hotel because he wanted to stay in his favorite room for one weekend.1. According to the passage, Howard Hughes was not（ ） .2. Which of the following about Hughes’ father is NOT TRUE?3. Howard Hughes’ parents died（ ） .4. The word obsessed in Paragraph 2 probably means（ ） .5. From the passage, we learn what Mr. Hughes lacked in his life was（ ） .

A.good-looking B.wealthy C.friendly D.powerful
问题2： A.He started the Hughes Tool Company. B.He liked to spend money. C.He worked hard. D.He drank alcohol a lot.
问题3： A.when he was 16 years old B.before he was 19 years old C.after he got married D.after he moved to California
问题4： A.troubled B.reduced C.related D.informed
问题5： A.education B.love C.money D.good looks.

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People say that money cannot buy happiness. This was true for Howard Hughes. He was one of the richest and most powerful men of his time. He bad everything: good look success, power, and a lot of money. But he didn’t have lave or friendship because he couldn’t buy them. All his life he used his money to control everything and everyone around him. In the end, he lost control of everything, even himself.Howard Hughes was born in 1905 in Houston, Texas. His father started the Hughes Tool Company. He was a workaholic（工作狂）and made a lot of money. He bought everything he wanted. He even gave money to schools so Howard could get into them. From his father, Howard learned to be a successful but merciless businessman. Hughes’s mother, Allene also had a big influence on his life. Howard was her only child. She protected him and gave him everything. Unfortunately Allene had mental problems. She was afraid of germs and diseases. She was obsessed with Howard's health，and he became obsessed win it too.Allene died when Howard was 16 years old. Two years later his father died. Hughes inherited the Hughes Tool Company. Then he married Ella Rice. He and Ella moved to Los Angeles, California. It was there that Howard Hughes began to become a legend （传奇人物）. Hughes began to invest his money in movies. He became an important producer soon after he moved to California. He worked hard, but he also played hard. He became obsessed with power and control. When he couldn’t get something legally, he gave money politicians and businessmen so they would help him. He owned a lot of businesses, including airplane companies, a movie studio（制片厂）, Las Vegas hotels, gold and silver mines, and radio and television stations. Once he bought a television studio so he could watch movies all night He also bought a hotel because he wanted to stay in his favorite room for one weekend.Accordign to the passage ,Howard Hughes was hot（ ）.Which of the following about Hughes' father is NOT TRUE?Howard Hughes' parents died （ ）.The word obsessed in Paragraph 2 probably means （ ）.From the passage, we learn what Mr. Hughes lacked in his life was（ ）.

A.good-looking B.wealthy C.friendly D.powerful
问题2： A.He started the Hughes Tool Company. B.He liked to spend money. C.He worked hard. D.He drank alcohol a lot.
问题3： A.when he was 16 years old B.before he was 19 years old C.after he got married D.after he moved to California
问题4： A.troubled B.reduced C.related D.informed
问题5： A.education B.love C.money D.good looks

名著阅读题1.下列对名著的说明，不正确的两项是（）A:对于吴家少奶奶林佩瑶来说，吴荪甫虽然是她的丈夫，但是他从没给过她的渴望的爱情，而且吴荪甫是个工作狂，与林佩瑶几乎没有什么交流和沟通。所以，当林佩瑶的初恋情人雷鸣出现在她的面前的时候，她刹那间找回了爱情的感觉，奋不顾身地投入到与雷鸣的爱情中去。
B:北静王生日，贾赦贾政带着宝玉和贾琏去拜寿。宝玉得到王爷的格外垂青，单独赐饭，还送他一块一模一样的“宝玉”。回家与贾母闲话，说他的玉夜里发了红光，凤姐便说这是喜信。宝玉不明白这话从何说起，因为他不知道今天家长们已经议定了他与宝钗的婚事。
C:泰戈尔《飞鸟集》歌颂了自然、生命与爱情，诗句如格言般短小精致，具有浓郁的抒情性和隽永的哲理性，语言清新，意象美妙。
D:宝玉挨打后，被抬回怡红院。宝玉恍惚听到悲泣之声，看是黛玉，又心疼她暑天跑来看他。而黛玉万般言语无从说出，只一句“你从此可都改了罢”，表达了无限感情。E泰戈尔《飞鸟集》中的基本意象不外乎小草、流萤、落叶、飞鸟、山水、河流等，每一意象也只有寥寥几行诗句，但却艺术地把这些意象叠加成了一首长诗、一个整体，从而传递出诗人对世态人生的探讨，对理想境界的企望。2简答题（1）《红楼梦》32回“诉肺腑心迷活宝玉”中湘云、袭人劝说宝玉，宝玉听了大觉逆耳，并称赞林黛玉从来不说这样的混账话。他们跟宝玉说了什么混账话黛玉听到宝玉的表白后又喜又惊，又悲又叹，请具体说明原因。（2）《子夜》第九章写到：“李玉亭觉得眼前一片乌黑，幻出一幅怪异的图画：吴荪甫扼住了朱吟秋的咽喉，赵伯韬又从后面抓住了吴荪甫的头发”以文中具体的事分析这种情况。

小李大学毕业后进入了公务员系统，暗自下定决心：要好好的做出一番事业。于是，每天小李早早地来到办公室，扫地打水，上班期间更是积极主动承担各种工作任务，回家还钻研办公室业务。 法制办公室是一个有五个人的大科室，包括主任甲，副主任乙，三位年纪较长的办事员A、B、C。几位老同志听说办公室要来这么一个年轻人，顾虑重重，他们认为现在的大学生从小娇惯，自命甚高，很难相处，而且业务又不熟，还需要他们手把手地教，来了他无异于来了一个累赘。令他们没有想到的是，这个年轻人热情开朗，待人谦虚，很容易相处。更重要的是，小李有行政学专业背景，再加上聪明好学，很快就熟悉了业务，成为法制办工作的一块好手。而且小李很勤快，承担了办公室大量工作，让几位老同志一下子减轻了许多压力。几位老同志渐渐喜欢上了这个年轻人，主任、副主任也经常在办公室会议上表扬小李。 可是聪明的小李发现，随着科长表扬的次数增多，几位老同志对自己越来越冷淡。有一次，忙着赶材料，B居然冷冷地对他说：“就你积极！”小李一时间丈二和尚摸不着头脑。 一年很快就过去了，小李顺利转正。 市政府办公室年终考核的时候认为，法制办工作能按量优质提前完成，被评为“优秀科室”。并且在制定下一年度（2004年）计划时，又增加了法制办的工作量。法制办的几位老同志本来因为小李的到来轻松了许多，这下子又忙起来。而且他们发现，虽然繁忙依旧，但是“名”却给夺走了，每次得到表扬的总是小李。小李更加被排斥了。随着2004年小李被评为法制办第一季度先进个人，A、B、C对小李的反感达到了顶点。从此，几位老同志再也不邀请小李参加任何一次集体活动，还在背后称小李是“工作狂”、“神经病”、“都这么大了还不谈恋爱，是不是身体有毛病”。话传到小李耳朵里，小李很伤心，“我这么拼命干不也是为办公室吗？要不是我，去年办公室能评上先进科室？怎么招来这么多怨恨？”他一直都不能理解。有一次，小李把自己的遭遇同另外一个部门的老王讲了。老王叹了口气，“枪打出头鸟，你还年轻，要学的还很多啊！”小李恍然大悟，正是自己的积极破坏了办公室原有的某些东西，让几位老同志倍感压力，才招来如今的境遇。 从此，小李学“乖”了，主任不布置的任务，再也不过问了；一天能干完的事情至少要拖上两天甚至三天。办公室又恢复了平静与和谐，先进个人大家开始轮流坐庄，几位老同志见到小李的时候又客气起来了，集体活动也乐意邀请上他。小李觉得，这样很轻闲，与大家的关系也好多了，心里压力骤减，生活也重新有了快乐。应该如何对非正式群体加以引导和管理？

小李大学毕业后进入了公务员系统，暗自下定决心：要好好的做出一番事业。于是，每天小李早早地来到办公室，扫地打水，上班期间更是积极主动承担各种工作任务，回家还钻研办公室业务。 法制办公室是一个有五个人的大科室，包括主任甲，副主任乙，三位年纪较长的办事员A、B、C。几位老同志听说办公室要来这么一个年轻人，顾虑重重，他们认为现在的大学生从小娇惯，自命甚高，很难相处，而且业务又不熟，还需要他们手把手地教，来了他无异于来了一个累赘。令他们没有想到的是，这个年轻人热情开朗，待人谦虚，很容易相处。更重要的是，小李有行政学专业背景，再加上聪明好学，很快就熟悉了业务，成为法制办工作的一块好手。而且小李很勤快，承担了办公室大量工作，让几位老同志一下子减轻了许多压力。几位老同志渐渐喜欢上了这个年轻人，主任、副主任也经常在办公室会议上表扬小李。 可是聪明的小李发现，随着科长表扬的次数增多，几位老同志对自己越来越冷淡。有一次，忙着赶材料，B居然冷冷地对他说：“就你积极！”小李一时间丈二和尚摸不着头脑。 一年很快就过去了，小李顺利转正。 市政府办公室年终考核的时候认为，法制办工作能按量优质提前完成，被评为“优秀科室”。并且在制定下一年度（2004年）计划时，又增加了法制办的工作量。法制办的几位老同志本来因为小李的到来轻松了许多，这下子又忙起来。而且他们发现，虽然繁忙依旧，但是“名”却给夺走了，每次得到表扬的总是小李。小李更加被排斥了。随着2004年小李被评为法制办第一季度先进个人，A、B、C对小李的反感达到了顶点。从此，几位老同志再也不邀请小李参加任何一次集体活动，还在背后称小李是“工作狂”、“神经病”、“都这么大了还不谈恋爱，是不是身体有毛病”。话传到小李耳朵里，小李很伤心，“我这么拼命干不也是为办公室吗？要不是我，去年办公室能评上先进科室？怎么招来这么多怨恨？”他一直都不能理解。有一次，小李把自己的遭遇同另外一个部门的老王讲了。老王叹了口气，“枪打出头鸟，你还年轻，要学的还很多啊！”小李恍然大悟，正是自己的积极破坏了办公室原有的某些东西，让几位老同志倍感压力，才招来如今的境遇。 从此，小李学“乖”了，主任不布置的任务，再也不过问了；一天能干完的事情至少要拖上两天甚至三天。办公室又恢复了平静与和谐，先进个人大家开始轮流坐庄，几位老同志见到小李的时候又客气起来了，集体活动也乐意邀请上他。小李觉得，这样很轻闲，与大家的关系也好多了，心里压力骤减，生活也重新有了快乐。法制办公室里的三个办事员是一个非正式群体吗？

小李大学毕业后进入了公务员系统，暗自下定决心：要好好的做出一番事业。于是，每天小李早早地来到办公室，扫地打水，上班期间更是积极主动承担各种工作任务，回家还钻研办公室业务。

法制办公室是一个有五个人的大科室，包括主任甲，副主任乙，三位年纪较长的办事员A、B、C。几位老同志听说办公室要来这么一个年轻人，顾虑重重，他们认为现在的大学生从小娇惯，自命甚高，很难相处，而且业务又不熟，还需要他们手把手地教，来了他无异于来了一个累赘。令他们没有想到的是，这个年轻人热情开朗，待人谦虚，很容易相处。更重要的是，小李有行政学专业背景，再加上聪明好学，很快就熟悉了业务，成为法制办工作的一块好手。而且小李很勤快，承担了办公室大量工作，让几位老同志一下子减轻了许多压力。几位老同志渐渐喜欢上了这个年轻人，主任、副主任也经常在办公室会议上表扬小李。

可是聪明的小李发现，随着科长表扬的次数增多，几位老同志对自己越来越冷淡。有一次，忙着赶材料，B居然冷冷地对他说：“就你积极!”小李一时间丈二和尚摸不着头脑。

一年很快就过去了，小李顺利转正。市政府办公室年终考核的时候认为，法制办工作能按量优质提前完成，被评为“优秀科室”。并且在制定下一年度(2004年)计划时，又增加了法制办的工作量。法制办的几位老同志本来因为小李的到来轻松了许多，这下子又忙起来。而且他们发现，虽然繁忙依旧，但是“名”却给夺走了，每次得到表扬的总是小李。小李更加被排斥了。随着2004年小李被评为法制办第一季度先进个人，A、B、C对小李的反感达到了顶点。从此，几位老同志再也不邀请小李参加任何一次集体活动，还在背后称小李是“工作狂”、“神经病”、“都这么大了还不谈恋爱，是不是身体有毛病”。话传到小李耳朵里，小李很伤心,“我这么拼命干不也是为办公室吗?要不是我，去年办公室能评上先进科室?怎么招来这么多怨恨?”他一直都不能理解。有一次，小李把自己的遭遇同另外一个部门的老王讲了。老王叹了口气，“枪打出头鸟,你还年轻，要学的还很多啊!”小李恍然大悟，正是自己的积极破坏了办公室原有的某些东西，让几位老同志倍感压力，才招来如今的境遇。

从此，小李学“乖”了，主任不布置的任务，再也不过问了;一天能干完的事情至少要拖上两天甚至三天。办公室又恢复了平静与和谐，先进个人大家开始轮流坐庄，几位老同志见到小李的时候又客气起来了，集体活动也乐意邀请上他。小李觉得，这样很轻闲，与大家的关系也好多了，心里压力骤减，生活也重新有了快乐。

问题：(1)法制办公室里的三个办事员是一个非正式群体吗?

(2)应该如何对非正式群体加以引导和管理?